When a run goes bad..

Talking to myself..
My head came out with these *shit..
-we should
Hold our location loosely.
Hold our possessions loosely.
Hold our friendships loosely.
Hold our life loosely..

And the conversation got harder when it came to: 
Hold our time loosely.
Hold our money loosely.
Hold our family loosely.
*That last one is a killer..

But I recognize that we all hold onto things tightly under the claim of loyalty (a prized attribute).  Also, we hold onto things tightly for acceptance and we really hold onto things because we are so freaked out of what it will feel like to be empty-handed. 

'Our human instinct is to grab ahold of things and hold on with mighty force'.